The signs when arguing and how to deal with it
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Aries: They will go off and won’t stop no matter how much of their judgement is altered. Most of the time they get too flustered up with emotion about the subject or they feel hurt, so they stop thinking and just pour out what’s in the top of their head.
How to deal with it - Don’t argue back. Just be patient, ask them to take a breath and know that they aren’t meaning to hurt you in any way. Let them cool off on their own
Taurus: Stubborn as hell and won’t back down until proven right - at least that’s the stereotype.
How to deal with it - Honestly just let them talk for once. The only reasons Tauruses argue is because no one is letting them get their point across. Let them speak for once, sit tight and listen and then speak. At least the both of you will be heard.
Gemini: Literally everything you say will be considered wrong. They probably won’t try to look at your side from the argument and they get kinda defensive about their views.
How to deal with it - Geminis can be a bit stubborn so it’s hard to handle it at first, but most of the time it’s best just to let them keep talking. If you argue back with them that’ll just fuel the fire
Cancer: They get vicious. Don’t be fooled about that stereotype where they’re all sweet as hell, when you get into an argument with them things can get ugly.
How to deal with it - Know that when they say something to hurt you, that means you probably hurt them in some way. Try to find middle ground and the reason why you two are fighting in the first place.
Leo: No matter what they’re always gonna think they’re right. Sometimes they can get caught up with their own feelings and reasonings and refuse to look at anyone elses until they are heard first.
How to deal with it - I know this may seem hard at first but try to hear them out before you talk about your side. Let them know you understand, and after they’ve calmed down feel free to talk about how you feel. Leos are extremely caring and understanding up until they are upset in any way, so let them cool down first.
Virgo: They’re fucking scary. If you get into an argument with a virgo, they can say some nasty things that cut right into you core. The worst part is that they always know what to say.
How to deal with it - It’ll probably hurt you a lot or make you angry when you fight with them, but honestly I wouldn’t. When you get upset, that makes them even more fired up and it creates chaos. It’s okay to argue back but it’s best to just leave them alone and talk to them later before they say something they may regret.
Libra: If anything, they’ll get feisty. They aren’t the type to full blown attack you but they can get overwhelmed and snap at you.
How to deal with it - Leave them alone. Libras need their space, and if you pick that time to argue with them about something they’ll literally just shut you down before you finish talking. Leave. Them. Alone. Talk to them about it later.
Scorpio: Terrifying. They make a full 180 from their normally happy and humourous personality and just turn extremely mean. Most of the time they don’t mean to say nasty things and they don’t want to hurt you, but they get so caught up with their feelings they can’t help it.
How to deal with it - This ones a hard one and probably one of the only bad things about scorpios. It’s important to stay calm, because if you freak out they’ll only get more upset because they see that they’re hurting you and they get angry at themselves. Leave them alone, or if you can handle it try to ease them out of it and comfort them. Sounds weird to do in a middle of an argument, but trust me they’re more mad at themselves than they are at you.
Sagittarius: They don’t get mad easily but they cool down extremely fast. Don’t let that fool you though, if you argue with a sagittarius it’s like trying to defuse a bomb and having it blow up in your face.
How to deal with it - literally just let them wear themselves out and make them laugh. They’re fairly simple to make up with and are willing to compromise with you if you just get them to chill.
Capricorn: Why are you even arguing with them? It’s hard to get them to listen to you because they can be stubborn as hell and always want to have their own way.
How to deal with it - This is probably the hardest one. If you give them a good enough reason they will listen to you but you have to treat it a bit like a debate, but do not get heated. If you stay calm when speaking to them then you’ll have a better chance.
Aquarius: They have a whole bunch of facts and shit to prove you wrong and like the other air signs; they’ll always think they’re right.
How to deal with it - A lot of them have a hard time listening to people when they have something to say, so let them go first and ask them if you can speak. This sounds like a weird play during an argument but it’ll prevent heated and bias views. Aquariuses won’t make sense if they’re fired up and that’ll only just make them sad or upset
Pisces: Literally arguments will go on for days passively or they will blow up. It’s never in between, it’s one or the other. Pisces usually hide their feelings and gradually bring it up passive aggressively starting small arguments that die down quickly and return again, or they get so overwhelmed with emotion they slay the shit out of you.
How to deal with it - You’re not gonna win by getting upset. It’s about being honest and letting them truly come out with how they feel also. It’s kinda hard to do that especially when they keep going “No really, i’m fine” when they actually aren’t. Sometimes you just need to confront them to settle it once and for all. Even if they blow up it’s better than them throwing shade at you for something that happened months ago
some days, you’ll oversleep and be late to class or work, you’ll look like an absolute mess, you’ll fail your biggest exam of the year, you’ll drop your phone in a puddle outside, you’ll say the wrong thing at the wrong time, you’ll lose the person you thought was the love of your life. you’ll cry your eyes out and feel so completely hopeless because everything seems like it’s going wrong, but even on those days, you’ll have people that love you. and some days, that’s all that matters. and that’s okay.
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